Which is the best thought of the day?

We are living in the year 2018, so many people would have lived before us. Think about the awesome journeys they would have lived.

Everyone tries to find the meaning of life. Every religion has it’s way, many people have their way.

Coming in this world without a “how to live” memo is surely a hard task. From India to Africa, from Australia to America and many more places . People will always try to find the meaning of life.

A teacher once told me ” do as many mistakes as you can, so afterwards in life you won’t be new to that”.

Since we already know that our life is not so long to do everything. We try to read autobiography of many people who have tried that.

I too also have read many autobiographies and biographies myself. Including Swami Vivekananda to Mahatma Gandhi and foreigners including Steve jobs and Jack ma.

Surely people like these are the Legends that passed through hardest time of life to became a driving force for people.

You know, even though I have read so many books, there are many situations I got stuck with. Situations I can’t handle or often got confused.

These daily news that appear causes a rush of ideology in mind. I don’t know who should I believe in. Sometimes it’s good and sometimes the choices are bad.

Then one day I remembered a story that was taught to me in 5th class. It goes like this ” In one region, there used to live a king, a king very powerful and famous for his starve of knowledge. He used to get his education under many different teachers.

One day he suddenly got a resolution to find one teacher who can taught him One thought that is applicable for every situation.

Finally, he got his address. He went to find his master. He did find him and asked his question to him. The teacher told him that he can’t tell the answer now.

Feeling sad, he started to return, but as he took one step, he heard the groaning of a person. He went there to find him. He finds out a person laying on ground with his legs filled with blood. He knew that person, he was a soldier from another village.

The king thought to kill him but suddenly he got pitied by his situation. So he took the guy to the teachers palace and carefully looked for him for 5 days.

Once the soldier health was good, he asked the king why didn’t you kill me when you know I was looking for you. The king said he didn’t had a choice, he was watching a person dying and his heart didn’t want to let a person die if he had a chance to save him.

Spotting this the teacher said You have find the main thing by yourself. When the king asked what? He answered there is never a perfect answer, never a perfect choice, never a perfect Thought. We had to live and make our way through by finding these answers, all of them become good or bad according to the situation.”

I hope you understand the meaning of this and if you any problem , contact me via comment.

Thank you so much for reading.

BRAIN: A notoriously well-behaved child

We all have heard this from our parent or elders that  “this BRAIN is a great asset if you’re the Master but a liability if it becomes your master”. Isn’t it? But does this relationship between us and our brain really work out well if we become its master? I’ll answer it but before that allow me to show you a convo between me and my best friend.

F : Hello brutha! Sup?

Me : Doing good. Wbu?

F : I’m fucked up. This college life is sucking me bad :'(

Me : Yeah, nothing new to hear. Anyways, what’s your dilemma?

F : As you said, just these assignments and all are so much to complete that I’m not being able to concentrate on any other stuffs. This is made even worse by the indicsiplined use of mobo. I was so aggitated that I unistalled whatever games I played and logged out and deleted all social media apps and even turned off app notification of every apps so that I won’t be distracted.

Me : Cool! So this must have helped a lot to cut your time spent on mobo.

F : Nah! It made worse.

Me : Wut!!

F : YEah! Actually now sometimes out of irritation of these continuous works I waste even more time on mobo. Although unintentionally but still and then curse myself for wasting that time. And this is going on since last week!! Tell me what should I do for this?

So how many of us can relate to this kind of daily life dilemma? This is a typical example of how my friend tried to forcefully master his brain to not to use mobo ingeniously and turned out to overusing it! So this imposter thing doesn’t work out anyways! Now what? I’ll again answer this but before that a situational example to make myself clearer.

Consider a 10 years old boy who goes and ask his mom to can he go out and play with his friends in the park. Now there will be two cases of how his mum will react.

Case 1: She’s a strict mother and when the boy asked her to go out and play she tells him to “go study and no play today because yesterday you played a lot”.

Case 2: She listen her boy and ask him to “go study for 1 hour then you can go play with your friends”.

Now the case study.

In case 1, when the boy is denied of playing outside and asked to study he will surely be angry at his mom and won’t concentrate on studying and rather pass time while sitting on studying table and as soon as he gets a chance to slip out from home he surely will run off to play! Such a notorious boy.

In case 2, the boy is given an option of reward for studying 1 hour and then he can go out to play. He surely will study for that 1 hour and then happily run off to ground.

We all can relate to this situation and experience it from time to time but with various kinds of stuff. But did you notice how this is true with our Brain also! Yes! Our mind thinks and works the same way that boy did!

Now considering my friend’s case above and seeing what he did we can understand that after he forcefully tried to stop himself (or his brain) from using any kinds of entertainment stuff on mobo how his brain revolted and in turn he wasted even more time on the mobo. So, what’s the solution then? Will, he keep on wasting his time this way or is there any fruitful way?

Yeah, there is a solution and I gave it above in the case study! We must treat our brain the way the mother did in case 2. We must attach a reward with whatever task we want our brain (or us) to complete. So in my friend’s case, he must keep a reward of using the mobo for 15 mins after 1 hour of his assignment or study. This will help him for sure and he must fine tune this reward system according to his tone of the day. But, this raises another question what if he tends to overuse his mobo and wasting his time eventually?

Well for that my friend there is only one person to ensure that overuse mustn’t occur and that is he himself! Self-discipline is the answer here.

So I hope that I’m able to make my perception of how to utilise your brain productively and in turn even keeping your brain (or you) happy with whatever you are doing or want to do. Simply putting, use the reward system or can say that attach a reward for completing what you may find boring like while studying, doing assignments, project, et cetera. Well, what should the reward be? That’s totally your choice and receive whatever appeals to you the most but with keeping in mind that reward must increase your productivity or at least doesn’t hinders it!

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Is this abyss worth living through?

A new and different idea, just thinking out of the box to be a little different.

#feelings, #life

Maybe for changing the mindset of people.

Who knows, how did humans appear, Maybe in the form of unicellular organisms or in the form of Adam, Eve? We haven’t seen how we began, all we know for sure is present.

So many kings, soldiers and other people appeared before us; walking the earth in the same place as we have. Did they have the same thought as well or they just walked through road without thinking?

We are here in this world walking the same road as our predecessors left out for us. Have you ever thought about the problems faced by us are only happening with us? Had nobody ever faced those problems?

If you think you’re alone to facing those problems then you’re wrong. There were people before us and will be coming after us. We are unique but not alone. Why did nature give us such a prominent place in this world? And why are we so special, why are humans so special so that they can turn the tide of nature, while all another being can not.

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Maybe Humans can be the most complex things that nature created. We can’t go out of the earth yet we can look at places beyond the earth, determining when did the universe would have formed, or how could we have been formed as soon.

There are so many questions out for us, almost in every field. Yet we are stuck in our base. What if, all of this is a play and we are the actors in it, playing the part that nature has decided for us. If you think properly you will find the relation.

Let me give you a plot. A normal life that we live in this society may seem happier to people who have faced harsh life situations, whereas for people like us, who have constantly lived in this, may not like it at all.

And this is how the story goes. There are good people, there are bad people. There is the feeling that affects us. People choose their lifestyle. And by the time the lifestyle of one person disturbs another. The strong crumbles the weak. Then with time, the strong start to have arrogance on his power. Spotting this, the weak start to unite now, as they have the common motive. Soon, they overthrow the strong, but soon, even in them, a dispute arises. Thus, a certain feeling arises between the people leads to them having a different path.

So, the one thing common in all humans is that they all have the same feelings. What is different is how they perceive them. Love, hatred, anger, enjoyment, boredness, joy, surprise, disgust, trust and even more. Are these things what that make us run?

So, why did all of us get the different meaning of the same line? Why is it we are seeing the same world different? Why can’t people just look at the same thing in the same way? Maybe, different views create dispute and lead to unhappiness.

But is dispute bad? This is a silly question, isn’t it? Actually what is good or what is bad, nobody knows. It’s all relative to the frame of reference from the ideologies of different people. You can see that how nature is related to physics to the deepest of hearts. I will again give you an example.

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Did you see the graph, now think that isn’t our lives behaves the same? Sometimes at the best, sometimes at the least.

Sometimes thinking, I often have the question “What makes us different than other animals in nature”. Well, we also go for the same basic requirements like foods, shelters, and others, so what is the difference?

Well, for this we have to look at the history from the start. Thinking of the history as past we can see. We began as a child entering in this universe, naked and not knowing the meaning of life, not knowing anything, we started journeying. Soon, we started inventing things like fire, the wheel and weapons and tons of other materials for our safety and enjoyment.

Then comes the middle era, in this time the kings had the limelight. They shared the enjoyment, wars were fought, one that would be in the history forever and tyranny was in the rise for a long time. Many human feelings were built at that time only. The people were divided by what work they do!

Then comes the middle era, modernization occurred, making the life of people easier. But that feelings were not over till yet. A division was still on the rise. Men, women, caste, religion these things were the basis of division that will hinder the development.

Even now, when we are rapidly progressing in the tech world, there are still those who think all of this is in vain. Their ideology is interfering with us.

Good and bad all of these are thinking of us after a lifetime of experience. Maybe, the experience is the basis of feelings. Lack of experience causes a person to believe in things s/he shouldn’t.

So many problems, so many injustices, so many revolts, what’s in this world is worth living for?

You see hatred everyday in the newspaper and in the surroundings. Feelings are such a heavy weapon. You know darkness is not absense of light waves as it is just that the electromagnetic waves around us doesn’t lie in the visible wavelength. Pain is a feeling we experience when there is a incompletness of certain things inside us and we feel like it must be there to make us feel potent. Anger, hatred, jeolusy, envy, revenge are emotions that is created by absence of feeling of ‘Love’ towards humanity.

Let me ask you “what is love?”. Well contrary to this generation, love is the heart’s desire to protect someone that is precious to your life or you care about. We all have someone or something like that, isn’t it? Our father, mother, siblings or your friends, your neighbour, a teacher, a passerby and many more.

You see don’t try to be self-centered “Value everyone, I mean everyone that comes in your life, they seem like nothing but surely they can give you something”.

These are things and peoples which make our life going and wonderful. Remember, the journey is more important than the destination.

The heart is a very delicate item. It has a mind of its own, a childish one, which always longes for someone or something. No matter how much older we get or experiences we gain our heart will still be the same loving and regretting to something.

You see, The hole in one’s heart can not be self-repaired or by regretting. It can be filled only by other people’s love. By caring and protecting other. By giving the heart an aim to again be a kid and play with someone. Sure, it will take some time but it is the only way.

So after all, there is a big difference between animals and humans. Animals give their young ones to preserve their species and to expand. But humans, do this to extend their love, to pass their will of fire to the new generation, to pass their dreams and interests and the ideas of future.

Humans are very sensitive being. If only, we would try to understand the feeling of others before doing any action we all will have a better future. There is not a new world, a perfect world. The only world there is where we live.

Try to be happy and let other’s happy.

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